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Faculty and Students at Millennium Middle School Lose Beloved Teacher Phillip Patton

Date posted: March 13, 2012

Phillip Patton, of Miramar, FL, passed away on March 10, 2012.  Patton is survived by his wife Donna.  He was the Behavior  Specialist at Millennium Middle School in Tamarac and formally served as Principal of Sunrise Middle School, Lauderhill Middle School and Sunshine Elementary School.  He will be missed by his fellow teachers and students.

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  • Philania Patton

    WOW..He is survived by his wife, Donna? That woman is a cold-hearted, manipulative, MONSTER who tried to ban us from seeing my father while he lie dying at the hospital!…and she has the nerve to be a principal herself! Phillip Patton was one of the most caring, giving, humble men to walk this earth. My sister and I, along with our children, could not even participate in my father’s funeral because of his jealous, money-hungry wife.

    ~Touch NOT my anointed and do my prophets no harm. 1 Chronicles 16:22~

    -R.I.P., Daddy

    • D

      That’s strange! I was at the funeral for Mr. Patton and one of his daughters did speak. To state that Mrs. Patton did not allow any of his daughters the right to speak is a false accusation. Why harbor such distain for your father’s wife and then lash out at her in this manner. There must be something that you didn’t gain.

      Also, please do not quote scripture when you are not telling the truth.

  • Philania

    I AM the daugher who spoke at the funeral.
    You have absolutely no idea what role my sister and I were allowed to play in my father’s funeral. I’m surprised I was allowed to speak at his funeral at all considering the fact that Donna banned the hospital from communicating with my sister and I, and even tried to ban us from being allowed to see him while he was on life support. As for me being angry because there is something I did not gain, YOU are showing your hand, Donna (its obvious this is you)….but we both know that I already possess something you can never steal, like you did my dad’s money…for I have his unconditional love that was there long before you and will be there long after you and your sons finish spending daddy’s life insurance money.

    I’m certain you know how to reach me if you’d like to discuss this further. Meanwhile, u can post whatever you like, but daddy, the hospital staff, and everyone else knows what happened.

    Final word to you: Why would my choice of scripture bother you? They say a guilty pig will squeal!

  • D

    This isn’t Donna! I don’t post my name in editorials because I choose not to!

    You stated “My sister and I, along with our children, could not even participate in my father’s funeral because of his jealous, money-hungry wife.”

    However, when I stated that one of Phil’s daughters spoke at the service, you rebutted, ” I’m surprised I was allowed to speak at his funeral at all”. That is exactly what I was referring to “false accusations”. You spoke at the funeral and during your statement, you spoke about the wonderful time you had with your daddy at the hospital. But now, you are saying that you weren’t allowed to visit the hospital. False statement!

    Being someone who also lost her father,I would not take the time in which I should be mourning his loss to bash his wife on a page informing others of his passing. Come on, bitterness and hatred are not what is needed in this time.

    Phil was a great man who did not hold grudges against anyone. Let the foolishness rest.

    Stop tarnishing his memory.

    Again, don’t quote scripture when telling lies!!!

  • Philania

    “D”, you obviously lack education or maybe you don’t process well. I know full well the extent to which Donna went to exclude my sister and I from participating in my father’s funeral. The fact that I spoke does NOT contradict my statement, as YOU have NO IDEA how that came to be. You are probably one of Donna’s so-called friends who sat around crossing my mother’s name off the cards sent to the funeral home addressed to myself, my sister, and my mom. Undoubtedly, you are another one of her sorrors who came to the hospital and watched my father being taken off life support as if none of you had the decency to recognize that my father deserved to be surrounded by FAMILY-NOT made a spectacle of!

    Perhaps YOU are her silly attorney friend who had the audacity to tell my mother that the bear I was holding was one Donna brought from home and she wanted back, when in reality, the bear was given to my dad by the staff at the hospital to hold against his chest when he coughed to assure he was doing so properly! Hmmmm…I guess you brainiacs didn’t notice that the teddy bear was wearing a “Holy Cross Heart and Vascular Center” t-shirt when you fabricated the story about bringing the bear from home….just another petty attempt to take something-anything that my dad gave me. Had Donna remained at the hospital, she would have heard my father tell me I could have that bear once he got out the hospital!Hmmm….speaking of her not being at the hospital:

    Perhaps DONNA was too busy taking out MORE lines of credit on their home while my daddy was confined to the hospital. Maybe she was somewhere scheming on the next man she’ll marry and stress out then pilfer his money too! One thing is certain: Donna certainly wasn’t at Holy Cross! How do you claim to LOVE my father so, yet the moment he is wheeled into the operating room, you announce that you’re going to Denny’s for breakfast! What kind of woman leaves her husband when he is undergoing open-heart surgery and doesn’t come back for 6-7 hours!

    How dare you try to correct me on ANY account of the events that took place with my father these last 2 weeks. I WAS THERE. You are correct, I WAS AT THE HOSPITAL FROM 7 AM DAILY from March 5th til I left on March 8th. As soon as I got home from the airport, the hospital called tp inform me that daddy took a turn for the worse. I turned around and came back to Florida on the 9th – THAT is when Donna tried to block our admittance to the hospital!! I dont owe YOU any explanations or elaborations. God, daddy, Donna, and those who need to know KNOW what transpired!

    If it were my husband, there’s no way I would have left at all! My dad died ALONE. I AM THE ONE who had to call Donna to tell her to go back to the hospital once things took a turn! SHE WAS AT HOME SLEEPING AND IT WASNT EVEN 8 PM! How dare you presume to speak about MY father at all! You are absolutely right. My father is a GREAT man. He is even greater now that he is at peace finally. He couldnt rest after 40+ years of working because of Donna’s greed. He was guilted into coming back out of retirement 2 months later because he wanted to take care of her and her trifling leeches she calls sons. YOU are probably one of the ones who had your hand out as well.

    People are already commenting about Donna’s horrible character. Seems most claimed to have held their peace this long out of respect for my father. You have NO IDEA the number of emails and phone calls I’ve gotten from total strangers telling me how sorry they are for how Donna has treated my sister and I. How could someone who would so all the horrible things she’s done be entrusted with leading elementary students! I feel sorry for the parents, teachers, and students of Sunshine Elementary. If Donna would try to stop my father’s ONLY children from seeing him before he passed, what is she capable of?—and she supposedly LOVED my father???

    Now, I won’t even dignify your existence with any more responses. I’ll give you the same invitation to contact me (I’m not hard to find)should you feel brazen enough to do so. I suggest you not speak about things you are ignorant about.-

  • D

    Philania, I’m neither. I am a person who was in attendance at the funeral because of the impact your dad had on my life. Not any of the titles you stated. I will repeat…GRIEVE! Don’t destroy the positive memory of your dad because that is what you are doing.

    If Donna does have a problem with you – based on the manner in which you are addressing the situation, I can see why.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    Well, let me start by saying I am a good friend of Donna Patton who spent a lot of time with her and Phil. And what I will say without a doubt is that Phil Patton loved the hell out of her. He loved and honored her the way a man is supposed to woman. He also loved his children and grandchildren. But, he understood that there was a happiness and contentment between a man and a woman that children cannot fulfill. And while it pained him dearly that his children did not approve of his wife, he continued to love her with a fierceness that your hatred could not destroy.

    And she loved him. and no matter what you post out here, it is the love that she showed him that filled the void you made by behaving foolishly.

    Now Philania, let’s talk a little about you and your greed and your poor character. If anyone took the time to research your character, one would discover that you are a lint-licker. What of your police record for stalking a married man? While you throw stones at Donna, fill us all in at how you showed up to a married man’s home demanding that his wife call him to the door to speak with you. You can judge her but tell us about your baby daddies? I am certain those men ran for the hills. How could anyone in their right mind put up with your psychotic behavior longer than the time it takes to get a nut.

    Let’s talk about the real reason you’re out here bashing Donna Patton. The real reason is there was no money left for you. Nothing. Nilch. Nil. Nunca. You got nothing. She got all of the insurance money. And do you know why, you worthless, sorry, dirty foot, poor excuse for a woman? Because she is the WIFE. The WIFE. Something you will never be. She is the wife, MRS. PATTON. And you cannot stand it. Why don’t you tell how you called the Benefits office of the School Board inquiring about the money two days after the funeral. Didn’t your dumb ass know that if you were a beneficiary, the would call you? You have leeched off your dad for years. Now the money train has come to a screeching halt. There’s nothing for you to collect. And yes, Donna Patton has it all.

    Donna has the house, his car, clothes and all the memories. You’re left with the bitterness, you silly rabbit Tricks are for kids, didn’t anyone tell you that?

    And you talk about being at the hospital sitting by your dad’s side. Why don’t you tell the truth and shame the devil? You told us all at the funeral how your dad was introducing you as his daughter and Donna as his wife to the hospital staff. I wonder why? Somehow I think he was trying to differentiate the two of you as I suspect you, in Donna’s absence, manipulated the hospital staff into believing you were more than you were and had more rights than you did. I believe Phil was trying to clarify who was who and who had the rights. the WIFE, you jealous, little girl.

    And before I forget, let me tell you what a blithering idiot you sounded like telling hundreds of people how you and your sister had your dad going to McDonalds and Burger King. You’re not a kid. You’re a 40 year old hag. Telling people how spoiled you were isn’t cute.

    And I love how you said, “Before he was a Que, he was my daddy.” You ignoramus! Didn’t your dad pledge in college? He was a Que before he was your daddy. But who cares?

    I think I was really done at the funeral when you, by your own admission, told us all that you’re a manipulator. Now, I will turn my cup up to that statement. You’re a big time manipulator. You’re a pathological liar, but you told the God-honest truth with that statement.

    Aren’t you the teacher who worked at Arthur Ashe Middle School who the principal ran out of dodge? People still tell the story about how that principal told you and I quote, “You’re cancer, but I am chemotherapy. I will either cure you or kill you.” That’s when you made your not-so-graceful exit. You found somene as crazy as you. Good for her.

    Let me give you some advice. Crawl your broke down ass-pirine back under the rock you emerged from. Donna had to tolerate you while Phil was living and she did so out of the love and respect for her husband. She can now move forward.

    By your own account, you said in your ignorant funeral speech that you are a manipulator. To put it plainly, I was done with you then.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    I understand that Donna and Phil were married 12 years and a couple for more than 15.  Why would anyone send flowers to a church in the name of his ex-wife?  How stupid and insensitive!

    Obviously you give no credit to your father for being an intelligent person. He married this woman and made a life with her but had no idea she was the vindictive, hateful person you are claiming her to be. Hmmnnn.

    You say Donna tried to keep you from saying goodbye to your father on his death bed. I was there at the hospital. You were allowed to say goodbye.  I was in the room with you at one point.  You are lucky that Donna was Phil’s wife.  By the way you are behaving and were behaving prior to his death, if I were Phil’s wife, you would not have been allowed at the funeral.

    I wonder also why we don’t hear from your sister. I think it is safe to say that she has distanced herself from you and your foolishness.  I have always heard that you are the unstable one of that family, an embarrassment to your sister.  I am sure she is home grieving, like you should be, and regretting that she allowed you to drive a wedge between her and her father.

    You said at the funeral that you are at peace.  All of this crap you’re posting out here is evidence that you are not at peace. You’re just bitter because there is no money for you.  You need JESUS!!

    I spent a lot of time with Phil and Donna Patton.  The thing that continues to perplex me is this:  Phil was such a loving, kind, and gentle man.  How could someone as VILE as you have sprang from his seed?  You must be 100% your mother. I hear she was a cheating whore.  Thank you Jesus for that as her infidelities lead to the demise of her marriage to Phil which, in turn, led to the beautiful love affair between he and Donna.  Thank God the man was able to have 12 years of marital bliss.

    God bless you, Donna.  Don’t worry about these haters.  Let them be your motivators. You will always be MRS. PATTON, the WIFE! You made Phil HAPPY and he deserved you as much as you deserved him. You’ve got friends who love you and will be there for you through your grief. We got you, girl.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    Philania, I just can’t get enough of your dumb ass. How is it that you would expect someone to put your mother’s name on the obituary? In all of my life, I have never seen the ex-wife listed as a survivor on an obituary. I guess stupid is as stupid does.

    I bet your dumb ass will request that your baby daddy is listed on your obituary. Stoooopid!!! Maybe you will also list the married man you stalked as one of your survivors. Double stoooopid!!!!! I guess in some way, he did survive. LMAO

    I just realized where I know you from, Philania. Every time I look in the dictionary, there’s your picture next to the word, STUPID!!!

  • Philania Patton

    I laugh at the fact that even with a JD, you are ignorant. I can’t think of your name, but you must be the ugly Delta with the big nose…the attorney. I know exactly who you are…You are the so-called attorney friend of Donna who came to the hospital and sat laughing with Donna while she was supposedly there visiting my dad in ICU.

    The accusations you wage would upset me if they were true. How would I possess a teaching license in 3 states if that were true? WOW, you give me too much credit!…Calling a married man from his front door? Really? Stalking a married man? WOW….. funny, that same man you claim was stalked was at the funeral with our daughter. Funny how not defending ones-self against an allegation can come back to bite you later, but if all that you allege were so, then I wouldn’t have the credentials I have now, would I? My character is not on the defense here, so I won’t explain a thing to you…but you’d better be prepared to back up your claims in court, because I play no games. Rest assured that I can and will substantiate every allegation made…And once I do, I’ll have you eating cold pork and beans from a can sitting on the side of the road begging for a nickel to buy a drink to go with it!

    You have the audacity to call my mother names? My mother NEVER cheated. The reason my parents divorced has to do with him trying to support our family AND his parents back home in Virginia. That’s something you wouldn’t know anything about since your sorry friend Donna made a point of separating daddy from any and everyone she could so she could spend every cent he earned! Besides, Donna is too busy allowing grown-behind men, along with their girlfriends AND their babies to live in my father’s house…..Why would my father build a $480,000 house 1 year before retiring? Why did he need a darn Cadillac Escalade or a salt-water swimming pool?….its simple: DONNA……can you say GOLD DIGGER? My father grew up in a house that didn’t even have indoor plumbing! He was a simple man who would sew the holes in his socks rather than buy new ones just to save $1. I talked to the insurance agent who told me my dad had spent virtually all of his first retirement bailing Donna’s sons out financially time and time again.

    Your friend is a lying, stealing, manipulative whore….and you know what they say about birds of a feather, right? Don’t make me put it out there that she was sleeping with one of his frat brothers to prove my point. As for my mother-she needs no defense. As for my sister-she’s the quiet storm…but you are absolutely right about one thing: I don’t tolerate nonsense from people……. YOU ARE EVEN DUMBER THAN DONNA! MY DADDY PLEDGED IN LATE 1969 AFTER THE BIRTH OF MY SISTER. YES, HE WAS MARRIED. YOU SEE, BEFORE HE WAS DONNA’S VICTIM, BEFORE HE WAS A QUE, HE WAS AND FOREVER WILL BE OUR FATHER.

    Why hide behind anonymity? You seem to have a huge mouth…I’d love to see how intelligent you sound in person. Its funny you weren’t so talkative when we were face-to-face at the hospital. I guess knowing I’m hundreds of miles away makes you feel like a big girl! If you’ve heard so much about me, then YOU should be woman enough to post your name and stand behind your lies and foolish talk. Don’t worry, you and I will have our day to “meet” soon enough. I just hope you don’t get bashful and neglect to mention any of the bold-face lies you’ve told here today once you’re under oath…can’t wait til you explain that terrible lie about the former principal at Arthur Ashe calling me a cancer….WOW-especially since that statement was made at a faculty meeting-in general-about the staff’s morale..yet, you twist the statement and inject ME into the scenario and lie on the principal! You should be disbarred! We’ll see what the good principal thinks of you posting lies about her and slandering her reputation for the sake of trying to discredit me. Just so you know, SIU is well aware of this thread, and now so will the Florida Bar Association.

    -YOU are a poor excuse for weave job….and you claim my father was your son’s Godfather….my father has ONE son….Phillip Finley….the one DONNA wants no one to know about.

    My attorney has asked me not to respond to any more of your ridiculous posts. So go ahead and play little girl games til it’s time to pay the piper.

    -Your inflammatory comments may sound authentic, but the facts and plain old common sense prevail.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    You’re hilarious. How can you possibly have a lawyer? Daddy didn’t leave you any money to pay for one. Remember? The only way you could possibly afford one at this juncture is for you to get out there on the streets and raise money from your back. Nah. You couldn’t raise enough.

    To clarify, I am not a lawyer, though it doesn’t take one to know that all you have done is slander Donna Patton so how could you even suggest that you’re going to sue for slander. What evidence will you use, this blog? IDIOT!!!

    And you know what’s sad? As you try to slander Donna, all you are really doing is making yourself look like the idiot you are and most importantly, you’re dishonoring your father’s name. But you could care less about that all you see is red because there was no money left for you. Nothing. Nada. Nilch. Nil. Nunca. No dinero for you!!!

    So I tell you what I am going to do, I am going to stop it right here. I am going to take the high road for Phil’s sake and to honor his memory. I think I have more than made my point.

    I just got off work. Whew!!! I think I will go by Donna Patton’s house and help her count all of her insurance money.

  • The Real Family of Philipl Patton

    You people REALLY need to stop! I have read the lies and insults told about Philco’s daughters and ex-wife, and I can’t believe you all claimed to love Phil! Let me say that my nieces are beautiful, educated, classy women whose father adored them! I know for a fact that Philco loved his girls more than life and he would not stand for all the disrespect being shown to them! GOD IS STILL IN CONTROL. HE WILL NOT ALLOW THIS FOOLISHNESS TO GO UNPUNISHED. You CAN’T OUTDO GOD!! And you really need to stop spreading filthy lies that you can not prove. Who said Philco didn’t leave his daughters anything? Maybe Donna didn’t control everything like she thought, or maybe you should just shut up because you really don’t know what you are talking about. I won’t put the girls’ business out there but I know for a fact Donna didn’t “get it all” like you claimed! Trust me, Philco took care of Buffy and Sean in the end just like Philco did all along. Its so clear that this was all about money for Donna and you just proved the point with your posts. Stop destroying Philco’s legacy with all the lies and drama. If you ever loved or respected Phillip Patton, then have the decency to let him rest in peace and stop all the hate. My nieces are fine. They know the ways of the righteous and the wicked.

    The Bible says in Proverbs 2:10-14 When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant to the soul then discretion shall preserve thee and understanding shall keep thee to deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man who speaketh froward things; who leave the paths of uprightness, to walk in the ways of darkness; who rejoice to do evil, and delight in the frowardness of the wicked.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    Philania started this war. If you cannot take it, don’t dish it. I stood by and watched her defame my friend. I finally had enough. She wants to throw out insults. I can match her every step of the way. And it is all TRUE!! If you want me to back off, you tell her to back off. I have much more to tell the world about Philania. And it is all true. She knows it is true, every syllable.

    Everyone knows Philania is crazy and they are shocked but not at all surprised at the level she is stooping I will expose her for all the world to see. Tell her to back off or I have just begun exposing her. The gloves are off. I tried respecting her and ignoring her antics for Phil’s sake, but I will not allow her to continue to lie on Donna and slander her. Donna has too much class to address her, but I am glad to do it.

    Let’s dance, Lil Girl.

  • The Real Family of Phillip Patton

    You truly are a lost cause. If what you is true, why do you hide who you are? EXACTLY. Pathetic. You aren’t hurting Sean one bit. She is living her life while YOU waste yours in a fight that isn’t even yours. Now WHO is REALLY CRAZY? And as for the things you call lies and slander, I’ve seen the proof of the debt Philco had due to Donna’s greed. I know all about what happened when Wilyan attacked them at the hospital. I was at the funeral and saw everything Sean claimed. I know all about Philco and Netta’s marriage, so who are you kidding? I can imagine the stress Philco was under if he was around you people. Thank GOD he is away from the mess and can finally rest! You need Jesus. May GOD have mercy on your soul, because you are going to need it on judgement day.

    NOW I’LL BE THE MATURE ONE AND END THIS EXCHANGE. YOU CAN HAVE THE LAST WORD ON EARTH, BUT GOD HAS THE FINAL SAY IN ETERNITY. AMEN.

  • A 20 year friend of Phil & Donna

    What kind of daughter, who claims to LOVE her dad so much, would write such filth on public blogs or leave such filthy messages ??? Is this how you honor your Dad ??? Shame on you PHILANIA !!! Your consistent disgraceful, vile, manipulative, gutter-like behavior killed your Dad. SWEETNESS, YOU were the death and shame of Phil Patton !

  • A 20 year friend of Phil & Donna

    Is this the manner in which a daughter who claims to LOVE her Daddy so much honor his legacy ????? Philania, are your public blogs or messages examples of the gratitude and appreciation that you show Phil, who is not even cold in his grave ? Is this the repayment that you give the man that has taken care of you and your children over the years ? Really ???? Shame on YOU ! Your consistently manipulative, vile and gutter-like behavior is what killed your DAD. Remember, he was getting better after the surgery. But your greed for his money and contempt for his wife killed him. Even on his death bed, you could only think of yourself. Instead of encouraging him and supporting the wife that cared for him, you lied, manipulated, scandalized and worried him – to DEATH.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    Philania, we know this is you. Why are you posting like you’re “the real family of Phil Patton”? No one in their right mind is going to respond on this post in support of you. No one.

    For everyone keeping up with this blog, I will put out the truth about why Donna Patton, the wife, communicated who should be allowed freely in Phil’s hospital room. Philania communicated erroneously to the hospital staff that she was his “legal guardian” and all decisions and information should be communicated through her. When Phil took a turn for the worse, the hospital called her and not his wife. When Donna discovered this, she had to put some things in place to ensure the best interest of her husband was not compromised.

    I truly believe that Phil Patton was aware what his daughter was doing as she was doing it right in that room. It is why he was trying to explain to the people in the hospital the difference between who his wife was and who she (his daughter) was. Even as Phil Patton lay in bed weak from a major medical procedure, Philania Patton was manipulating and trying to undermine the relationship he had with his wife.

    She is a bold bitch. How do you remove a Teddy bear out of the room without consulting the wife? It is her husband. She has the rights, not children. Philania is just disrespectful.

    For this wicked witch to say her father lived a meager life and should continue as such is crazy. You would want him to sew holes in his socks and not enjoy the luxuries of a nice comfortable home, Escalade truck etc. Why would you not want your father to have nice things and live a comfortable existence? You didn’t want him to have nice things because you wanted him to continue giving you his money. You hate Donna because you could no longer manipulate your father and have him giving you the money. It is about money for you. But you got nothing. Nada. Nil. Mulch. Nunca. No dinero for you, Philania.

    And you have the audacity to characterize Donna as a gold digger. Donna is a school administrator. She makes a comfortable salary.

    Philania talks about everyone using Phil but her. What of when you played crazy and left Arthur Ashe Middle and Phil transferred his unused sick days to ensure you continued receiving a check until the end of the school year. You bragged about that all over Broward County— how you used your daddy and the system. You’re a real piece of work, Philania.

    Word to the wise, when you stop, I will stop. I still have more to expose on you. I will do a little at a time. When you’re ready for me to stop telling the world about you, yo will back off. I will follow your lead. Won’t promise you anything more, anything less.

    Let’s dance, Lil Girl.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    I guess Philania has finally retreated. She knows what is good for her. Hmmnnn. She isn’t as crazy as she wanted all of us to believe. She’s reflective and reasonable. She doesn’t want to continue in this flame war with me.  She’s out here talking ugliness about Wilyan’s and Jhantae’s mother, but she gets all excited and offended when I talked about that cheating whore of a mother she’s got. 

    It is funny how children hate the parent who has done nothing wrong. That gluttonous bitch of a mother Philania has cheated on Phil with a Caribbean man. She left Phil, the father of her children (Philania and Buffy), for this Island man that she cheated with.  Well, this man used her, dogged her ass out and left her. And Philania is out here saying some craziness about her mother leaving because Phil was helping to take care of his family in Virginia. All lies. 

    If Phil was helping take care of his extended family, this shows that Philania is 100% like her greedy, slut-whore mother. Her mother didn’t want Phil to love or be a help to anyone else but her.  She cheated on him and left him because he was helping his family?  Are you serious? I always thought that how a man treats his mother and sisters is an indication of how he will, in turn, treat his wife and children. The problem is, Mother dearest wanted it all.  What a low down, dirty ass woman she is!  Do you see a pattern developing here? There’s an expression, “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.” Philania is every bit of a replica of that skanky-ass mother of hers.  UGLY!!!  Selfish and ugly to the bone. 

    Funny, Philania hates her father for finding real love with Donna. Shes projecting the hate onto the wrong parent.  Your mother is to blame for the demise of your family, not Phil and certainly not Donna.  Philania, you should praise and honor Donna for making your father happy the last decade and a half of his life. I am here to tell you, HE WAS HAPPY AND IN LOVE!!!  It was a beautiful union. It was an example to others of how to live out your marital vows. 

    Phil barely knew your children, his grandchildren, because you kept them away to punish him for marrying Donna. You say he loved his little ladies. I am sure he did love you and your children. BUT, he didn’t “experience” the love because you withheld it from him. His only time with your kids was an occasional graduation or other social event. But at Christmas, New Year’s, Easter, Father’s Day and “Just Because I Love You” days, you and your children were never there. If the truth be told, your children really did not KNOW their grandfather. And you can only blame yourself for that.  I am here to tell you that he LONGED to know them intimately and he hurt deeply that you chose to keep them away.

    Despite what you think, Philania, I feel sorry for you. You didn’t experience your father and I hurt for you as I realize, even if you don’t, what you missed. Phil was an amazing man. I will forever cherish my time with him and Donna. I learned so much about love and how to show love and serve another human being from them. May he rest in peace.    

    I’m done,… if you’re done.

  • let Phil rest

    All of you should ashamed. This is neither the time nor place for this. Philania the world knows that your father loved you and you sister and your children. Let go and let God. He well fight this battle for you. As far as Donna’s friends, you are fighting a war that is not yours. Step back and mind your business. Mr Patton would not be happy with any of the things being said here. You all claim to love him. Show it by letting him rest in peace.

  • One of Donna’s Good Friends

    @Let Phil Rest.
    Where is your regard for Donna, the wife? You want us to let Phil rest and I agree. But you post this as some sort of peace statement and address the daughters but not the wife. She lost her HUSBAND. she has remained quiet while Philania has gone to great lengths to drag her name through the ditch.
    You say it is not my war, not my place, I beg to differ. It is as much my place as an ignorant daughter who is defaming the wife (and her father by her actions)when she has two charges of stalking two married men on her record…one in South Florida and one in Atlanta, Georgia. She is arguing for the rights of her mother, a lying cheating whore who abandoned her marriage to run after a man who eventually dumped her and left her to raise Philania and her sister without a father. shame on her and her nasty, funky daughter. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
    I have as much to say as she does. I stood by and listened to her defame my friend. I thought time would stop her. It did not. It was only after I exposed her and her mother publicly did she back off.
    Word to the wise since you’re out here spouting wisdoms, use spell check and check your grammar before you run out here posting again. Your use of the English language is an embarrassment.

  • Donna’s Friend

    I was at the hospital when Phil departed this life. It’s a sad state of affairs when your daughter loses her mind, destroys her credibility and all the good you did trying to raise her with morals and ethics. In the end one will be vindicated and the other will crawl back under the rock they came from in the red clay. I personally spent numerous hours enjoying Donna and Phillips’ hospitality. They could really throw a cook out. This would make one hell of a soap opera if it weren’t real. Remember, crawl back under a rock.

  • VOICE FROM HEAVEN

    As I read these posts, it greaves me. We all loved Mr. Patton, not for what he had or for what he could offer, but for WHO PHIL PATTON was. He was a man that loved his family, yes FAMILY! loved the children he came in contact with on a daily basis, and definitely himself. The going back and forth about what should or shouldn’t have taken place at the hospital or even during the times when he was at his best is a complete form of DISRESPECT.
    Yes his daughters are upset, quiet naturally because they have lost their dad as well as Mrs. Patton because she has lost her husband, but harsh words and lashing out at each other will not bring him back and better yet, I believe if GOD asked him if he wanted to come back, he would see the ongoing foolishness and say “No Lord, it’s best I stay here with you!”
    Please pray about what is going on in secret and watch GOD move. If there are any crocket lines, GOD will make them straight.No one is exempt for the deeds that is done in your body, so girls don’t worry and wife be patient.
    “Be not deceived, GOD is not marked, whatsoever a man soewith, he SHALL reap.”

    Be Blessed

  • Shaking My Head

    @Voice From Heaven
    While I am sure you are trying to appear neutral, you can save your comments. It is evident that you are a part of the Philania Patton Support Campaign. I, too, have also stood by and read the back and forth comments that are going on here. I held my peace as well. But I am now joining the comment section.
    Just because these girls are upset at the loss of their father gives them no right to come out onto a public sight and begin making libelous comments about the man’s wife. For you to not admonish Sean for this behavior, I have to question your morality. Sean is not a child; she is a grown woman.
    You refer to the “girls”. No one has heard from Buffy. Sean is making all of this hoopla independent of Buffy. Buffy is somewhere grieving the loss of her father and as someone said earlier, she is probably regretting that she ever allowed Sean to so severely damage her relationship with her father. I agree we should let this man rest in peace.
    Anyone who claims to love and support Sean and Buffy will tell them the TRUTH. The truth is Phil Patton loved them very much. He loved them and their children. But he also loved his wife and her children and grandchildren. He loved them very much. He chose to be with her and to disrespect her is to disrespect him. If you love and support those girls, you will tell them the truth. You will tell the truth about their father and the truth about their behavior. Their behavior (Sean, as I cannot speak to anything Buffy has said or done) STINKS and it is disrespectful to their father’s name. If she loved her father, she will let it go and ask God to give her the same love her father had for people. He was a loving man.